Pamela Natmessnig

Radical Birth Keeper | Breathwork Facilitator | NFP-Beraterin

Rewilding Pregnancy, Birth & Postpartum

Walking with and holding space for women

Birth Coaching

Wild woman, wild birth: die angeborene Weisheit des Körpers entfesseln

Birth Trauma Debrief

Geburtstrauma transformieren & heimkommen

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Birth Coaching

Suchst du nach einer Frau, die dich auf deinem Weg zu einer transformativen Geburt begleitet?

Birth Trauma Debrief

Möchtest du deine Geburt erzählen und endlich Klarheit darüber bekommen, wie es so weit kommen konnte?

Postpartum

Weint dein Baby untröstlich? Hast du Schwierigkeiten mit der Bindung zu deinem Baby?

Zykluswissen

Möchtest du mehr über deinen Zyklus erfahren und dich mit deinem weiblichen Körper verbinden?

Breathwork

Mit unserer Atmung können wir uns tiefer mit uns verbinden und Blockaden lösen.

Pamela Natmessnig

Über mich

Ich arbeite mit Frauen, die in ihrem Körper sein wollen, die die konventionelle Geburtskultur in Frage stellen und eine wilde und freie Schwangerschafts- und Geburtserfahrung wollen. Ich unterstütze Frauen dabei, ihre Kraft und Souveränität zu leben.

Wenn uns etwas aus dem gewohnten Gleise wirft, so glauben wir, alles sei verloren, dabei beginnt nur etwas Neues und Gutes. – Leo Tolstoi

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What do history and birth stories have in common?

What do history and birth stories have in common?
They are so often faked.
Because the „winners“ dictate the story; they rewrite it.
It's the midwife who writes the birth protocol. It's the surgeon who writes the operation report.
And if the woman doesn't agree with it, it's very convenient to say „she doesn't remember“.

But what's her story?
Her story is hopefully not the story of her oppressors.
Will she have her own story?
Or will she repeat the speech others prepared for her so that these lies can go on?
Will it be a story like any other: „I was saved by surgeons“? And will she create false beliefs out of it?
Or will she dissect her birth story and make her story out of it?
Will she unmask the lies?

Will she be willing to see what really happened to her and her baby?
Will she be willing to see that she was lied to by the very system she lives in and she trusted with her and her baby's lives?
Will she be willing to see that the whole system is flawed?
Will she be willing to question the system?
Because that is what it will come down to.

It's about so much more than birth, it's about everything she encountered before birth, everything that led to that specific birth.
It's about how this system is treating women – her as a daughter, sister, mother and now, also her daughter.

Will she see the hand that is reaching out to her to support her in reclaiming her story and take full responsibility for it?
Will she crush those old beliefs and create new, true ones?

It's time for her to take back her story!

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The story of birth she had been telling herself ha

The story of birth she had been telling herself had come to an end. But for now she has no idea about the new, powerful story, just the notion that there is more out there for her.

All those years she had walked the path of the system, the path of others and actually nobody.

But now she hears the call to set out for a new shore. She does not know what this new path will hold out for her, only the promise of a new beginning and she feels the need to walk it.

Following the call is never wrong because it's her inner voice, her deepest wisdom, her guiding light.

Nobody can walk the path for her; nobody can lead her. This is her journey and it will prepare her for motherhood. She knows that this will change her forever.

At some point not knowing where this will lead to, isn't as scary as staying at the same spot.
There is no going back.
The old version of her dies.
When it is time, she will walk over the threshold; she will loose her mask and unleash her powers.

A pregnancy resembles a journey. We are in search for ourselves; who we really are. A search for a deep connection to our true self.
It will lead us to where we need to be – if we don't confuse it with the ending of our journey.

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Do you see that birth in any other animal is compl

Do you see that birth in any other animal is complicated?
Only captive animals are interfered with at birth.
Cats get away, but dogs sometimes get surgeries, while cows are regularly pulled out of their mothers.

That doesn't mean that birth is complicated. It is interfered with.
Nature is clever, it stops birth when it is not the right environment.
The moment it gets complicted, is when somebody complicates it.
When the body says: “No, I am not giving birth here with her.” and obstetrics says: “We need to get this baby out of her right now.”

This high mortality rate was never from birth, but foremost because of bad nourishment and depletion.
So when we worked women into depletion and exhaustion, we then also industrialized birth so we could continue industrialized living.
This has nothing to do with natural birth anymore.

And then there are those woman who rise and strive for a wild birth – and those women are called irresponsible?
For taking back birth?
For birthing the only way that is protective of our species?!

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We didn't need to overcome natural physiological b

We didn't need to overcome natural physiological birth.
We didn't need to succumb to industrialized birth.
Unphysiological birth.
Domesticated birth.
Birth in capitivity.
Fake birth.

We didn't need to move away from a process that is millions of years old.
We don't need industrialized birth to try to save every life, but traumatize most of lives.
We don't need that to happen to our sons and daughters.
That's not how life works, that's messing with it.

I believe that sentence „how you live is how you birth“ is totally true.
If you live an industrialized life, you will strive for an industrialized birth.
You will be stripped to a bed, plugged into instruments while drugs flow through your veins.
Unfamiliar birth space.
People walking in and out of the room.
Machines beeping.
Proded and poked, touched in the most intimate parts.
Noises, voices, bright lights.
Who can birth in that environment?
That species has to evolve yet – humans can't.

We need to rewild in order to have wild births, like our ancestors.
That's how birth works.
In an industrialized environment, like the hospital, birth doesn't work.
Sometimes it's like a crash landing, and birth ends fairly well – but that's not what birth holds in for you. That's not the whole potential of birth.

Since the dawn of our species, we have given birth in the wild.
And now look at us, so afraid of birth and the wild.

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